Confessions of a former Christmas Junkie

I have always loved Christmas. I loved the lights, the glitter, the excitement and always made it a full on production for my kids which wasn’t always easy as their Dad could be a bit of a grinch about it. . The stocking stuffers were a big thing with my 4 children, a tradition I carried on into their adulthood, soon realizing the fortune I was spending on the little funny stuff would be better spent getting them something useful.

Once the bulk of gift buying was under control I could then busy myself with outfitting a couple of Barbies in all the latest fashions, often not starting my sewing until 9 or 10 at night and sewing until the wee hours of the morning.  There were Christmas dresses for the girls to be made, new vests for the boys. The house had to be decorated, a tree had to located and cut down and decorated. Black Friday shopping was a must. Packages had to be wrapped and some to Post Office. Holiday meal for 10 or twelve folks to be prepared and lots of pumpkin pies, (my specialty) to be made from the Halloween pumpkins. From Halloween to Christmas was a constant whirlwind of activities with Thanksgiving thrown in in the middle along with November and December kids’ birthdays.

And I loved it, even when it just became the Senior and I.  We decorated the house, eight storage boxes, six more for the outside decorations.We did look festive! But with our children and grand children scattered over 5 states and one foreign country there was no more big holiday gatherings and we began to say why? Why are we doing this? And the answer was habit!

Now we have developed this wonderful new habit.  Christmas  in Zihuatanejo. Two poinsettias and a nativity scene and we are decorated. Christmas dinner with friends is a sharing of cooking between our small mexican  kitchens. We now do much of our Christmas shopping while sitting in the shade of a palapa on a warm beach and let the “stores” come to us. It’s so easy to buy lovely jewelry for the ladies in our family and before we arrive home in March most of the Christmas presents have been bought.  We no longer have to contend with pushy, stressed out holiday shoppers, just happy beach crowds. Life is good, no stress, no mess. Merry Christmas to all! Signing off KO

OUR BALCONY TOMATO FARM

 

Our balcony has two planter boxes, one has some shrubbery growing in it the other is just dirt. We decided it would be fun to grow a tomato plant in the other, but we have never seen tomato starts anywhere local.

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All the necessary ingredients

While shopping at the Bodega we found tomato seeds and a bag of “starter dirt” and decided to give it a try.

The dirt in the planter was hard and dry and had a lot of broken tiles in it but we loosened it up spread a layer of “starter dirt” sprinkled the seeds, and added another layer of starter dirt and hand

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Dry hard dirt in planter

sprinkled it so as not to flood it and wash the seeds away.

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Hand sprinkling the seeds

The senor was insistent that we needed a sprinkler can.  So I took a plastic water bottle using a needle punched a lot of holes in the top /cap end,  filled the bottle up with water

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sprinkling the seeds

put the cap back on and we have a great sprinkler bottle. After 2 days we have sprouts

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day2 we have sprouts

After a week we have little tomato plants but a ton of grass also. So some judicious weeding took care of that and 10 days into this project we have 6-8 inch little tomato plants growing happily in the sunshine. Who knows we might get a tomato by mid March when we leave.

Signing off KO

Ixtapa Marina Where the Big Yachts Dwell

Having heard about the Ixtapa Marina,  and the big expensive yachts that moor there naturally I wanted to go and see how the other half live. Our friends Faye and Paul offered to be our “tour guides” on this breakfast adventure as they knew the places to go on this adventure. So off we are on the Ixtapa/Marina bus where our first stop was the liquor store, probably the largest liquor store in the area, huge selection, prices seems normal and it also has so some interesting goodies.

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The Oyster Bar/Fischers

Next stop “The Oyster Bar” well at least until 1:00 when it becomes Fishers with a whole new set of prices. The menu was full of items I had never heard of.  While I am a  believer that ” breakfast is what you call a meal with out wine” but here this menu had 3 suggestions under the heading BREAKFAST COCKTAILS.  Now how can you refuse that! I ordered a Pepenillo or something spelled similar to that . It was

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The Senior, Paul and Faye

Tangeray, cucumber and lime soda and probably the most refreshing drink ever created beautifully served in a large green rimmed glass. So pretty and tasty that Faye found it necessary to have one too.

I always enjoy trying something new so I ordered a poblano enchilada with eggs which arrived on a large platter smothered in a delicious sauce. It was super good, but too much  so I was able to share some with Paul and Faye.  The Senor, who rarely tries anything new, stuck with his fish tenders refusing my offer to share with him.

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Ixtapa Marina

We had a great view of the marina with all the big expensive yachts.  This is quite a change for us coming from Puget Sound, the small boat capitol of the world were every marina is jammed full  but not many of these big boys.

This is definitely a place to revisit.  Signing off KO

Día de Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe

For the past several evenings the fire works begin about 5 o’ clock, not so much the pretty kind just the loud booming ones. This goes on for a couple of hours for several evening in a row.  So along with the noise I discover there are lovely processionals were groups bring their shrine of “Our  Lady of Guadalupe” to the Church to be blessed. The shrines arrive on floats, some motorized some hand carried, decorated with flowers and balloons accompanied by the folks that belong to that organization, business or family.  Many participants are dressed in beautiful embroidered, traditional clothing. They carry candles and sing in unison as they march through the streets to the church.  It’s really quite beautiful.

This has been going on for several days and will culminate tonight around midnight or so I’ve been told, as tomorrow is the the Day of Our Lady of Guadalupe which originates back in the 16th century when the Virgin Mary appeared to Juan Diego and asked that a shrine be built in her honor.  I grew up in the Catholic religion, but we never had any beautiful, interesting processionals, I love the colorful processionals, the floats and the candle lit singing, but I could sure do with out the loud explosions. But the Mexican

people love color and noise. Signing off KO

 

NEW APARTMENT

After 10 plus years in our current apartment we are making a change.  We have contracted to rent the new apartment year round.  It is a one bedroom, definitely bigger than our current studio. Among the biggest pluses are only one flight of stairs, a cab can pull up to the door. No more schlepping groceries almost a full block from where the taxi stops and then 3 flights of stairs. A cool breeze blows through the apartment so we will be less reliant on the air conditioner and we are still only a block and half from the bay. Oh, it only costs  half of what we pay now. Along with the pluses there is a minus or two, we are a block further away from where we are now and our balcony now looks over a street with traffic instead of just pedestrians. We will miss the daily camaraderie  of the folks in our building,. While we still only plan to be there 4-5 months we will be able to leave our personal belongings in place,  acquire as much personal stuff as we need to make ourselves as comfortable here as at home.  It also allows for the possibility that family  or friends might  want an opportunity to sample Zihuatanejo could take advantage of our apartment.

We are so excited with all the possibilities, but unfortunately we can’t move in in March like we hoped as it is rented March to April so we have to wait until next year to begin feathering our nest. Signing off KO

KAYAKING TO PLAYA LAS GATTAS

On the best of days it is difficult  for me to disembark the water taxi  on the Zihuatanejo side. The pier is way to high, it takes 3 men and a small boy to haul me up from the boat.  Don’t get me wrong, I really appreciate the help. But this year due to the very recent knee replacement my knee just isn’t bending properly yet. And the thought of having someone yank me up to the pier causing my knee to bend more than it wants to is terrifying.  But I love Las Gattas , swimming to there was out of the question as I have a great fear of twirling propellers and  I decided the best way to go was to was to paddle there.

My friend Bonny thought it would be great fun, so we rented two kayaks and set sail.  The Senior, not up for such an adventure, took the water taxi and he met us there. The beach at La Madera had big waves that day but  Andreas took us out and showed us

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Bonny paddling

when to start paddling to get over the waves and it was easy going from there. It was a beautiful sunny day, while the water was not flat it wasn’t too choppy either.  About 40 minutes later we were pulling up in front of Gloria del Mar and my favorite waiter Jose pulled us in and stored the kayaks out of the way.

IMG_0570It wasn’t long after the Senior arrived and we had a lovely lunch of red snapper, I tried out my new full face snorkel mask. I think I’m really going to like it.  I’m great in the water, but I can’t back onto the beach. Between the waves pulling me back, sand moving under my feet and stiff knees I feel a bit  like a beached whale and needed the senior to come haul me up to a standing position.

 

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With Jose’s help we relaunched the kayaks and paddled our way back to Playa La Madera. Here again we had breaking waves to deal with and I have to admit that Bonnie made a perfect landing, whereas I came in a little to much sideways causing my back pack to get a bit wet, but no harm.  Next year I’ll remember to bring a dry sack.  Signing off KO

 

IT’S BEGINNING TO LOOK A LOT LIKE CHRISTMAS

On the morning of the first day of December the Christmas Flags went up on our street soon followed by inflatable

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Christmas flags on our street

Frosty and other characters appear each night after dark at the corner by the statue.

This morning I walked up to the “Buenoche” market and bought two beautiful poinsettia plants to make our apartment more festive. And every evening our balcony has solar Christmas lights on the railing.

But Christmas arrived early for us in the form of a long awaited for fed ex package. En route to Zihuatanejo I had left a small purse with a debit card and my drivers license at and  the Seattle hotel.

My son retrieved it and was to send it along with the computer hard drive that my daughter copies movies and TV series and mails to us for use in Zihuatanejo. It arrived at our home the day after we left, so my son put my purse in that package readdressed it, put the  debit card receipt in the box showing how much he paid fed to send it priority to us. It got to Mexico in 2 days and then was held hostage in Mexican customs for 16 days.  FedEx was little to no help in helping to resolve what the problem was, or what items were in question. But 17 days later  and $175. we have the package with everything in it except the receipt. So we got the Christmas presents from my daughter ( we never would have brought them with us, no need of a sweat shirt or the medallions for my walking stick) But I am enjoying the framed photo of all 4 of my kids, especially since  they so rarely are all together. signing off KO

A DAY MOST EXCELLANT

I started back swimming Monday at the “Alberca de Olimpica” the Olympic size swimming pool here in Zihuatanejo.  I first do my physical therapy ball wall walking exercises,  in the apartment, then head to the gym across the street to ride the bike for 15 minutes, then out to the pool to swim laps.  Usually I walk to the pool, but I’m being good and taking a taxi to and from this year.  My doctor said walking will just tire me out with giving me no increased strength or range of motion.  I miss being able to walk every where, but that will come later. I only swam for about 30 minutes on Monday and a little longer on Tuesday but what a difference it has made.  I feel good, I can now navigate the 3 flights of stairs to our apartment as an adult instead of as a two year old and with no pain. Major improvement, makes me feel all will be normal again soon.  And let me tell you I have had doubts.

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improvised measuring devise

The Senior and I have rigged up a measuring devise to track the “range of motion”  improvement from an old hand held fan and a tape measure.  Being a regular swimmer, getting back in the water again makes me feel so good.

I felt so good today that I went and had my nails done, my friend recommended a new salon which I tried and seem satisfied so far. I always have trouble with them holding up. For the equivalent of  $18 US  here, I get a really good

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manicure

manicure complete with a hand massage. Then I made appointments for the Senior and I to get pedicures tomorrow. And then I followed this up with a beachfront grande mango margarita for less than $5.00.  Life is so good here ! Zihuatanejo is not super cheap, but it is very reasonable, and very beautiful.

After 11 days of haggling with Fedex over a package held up in  Mexican Customs they have told my son, the shipper, that they have released most of the items.  Won’t know for sure what did and did not get released until I get the package.  But the Fedex tracker says it is still in Mexican Customs, maybe tomorrow it will leave Mexico City, but I won’t hold my breath.

All of this may not seem like high excitement, but it was an extremely satisfying day.  Signing off KO

LAUNDRY MEXICAN STYLE

When we began staying in Mexico long enough to need laundry being done the Senior would weekly load one of our wheeled suitcases up to the local “laundaria” where for very few pesos they would wash dry and fold your laundry having it ready for you at the end of the day. At home the Senior always does the laundry and just assumed the job here. This worked great for a couple of years until some thing got ruined in the process, water too hot for the fabric and once crusted undissolved soap power crusted on clothing leaving stains. Our choice were at that point sit at the laundaria and do it our self taking up half a day or do it on our roof top as a washing machine had been installed there.

But as with many things in Mexico, the washer didn’t  work exactly as expected.  This washing machine fills with very a slow drip.  We soon discovered that by  filling buckets of water at the wash sink and dumping them in the washer it would save considerable time, but it is considerable work and the Senior decided he didn’t have the patience or the desire to spend that much time on the hot roof top and the job fell to me. It takes 6-7 buckets of water for each wash load and again 6-7 buckets for the rinse.

So now I weekly collect our clothing, personal bath towels and sheets and head to the roof in the cool, cool, cool of the evening about 9 pm, take up my kindle a glass of wine and proceed to do the laundry. I’m entertained by my kindle and the bar down the street that pumps out music for the whole town to hear and enjoy a glass or two of wine while our clothes wash. Each load is then hung on the lines to dry.  Usually by 10 am its all dry and can be taken in and the clothes didn’t spend the whole day baking in hot sun for the colors to bleach out.  My system works well and now the Senior in charge of maintaining our supply of ice and arranging for the timely delivery of drinking water. Fair trade!

This year the was a new wrinkle in the laundry system. They hung badly needed new  clothes lines, but they are higher than I can reach. Lucky for me there is a nice ladder on the roof, its a little awkward hanging clothes on the line from a ladder but do-able. Signing off KO

WATER, WATER, WATER

Once again we woke up to water in our apartment.  About an inch covered the kitchen floor. Upon further investigation we discover the source of the issue is in the apartment next door with a leaking  intake water pipe. The Senor blocked the flow of water from our kitchen into the rest of our apartment with a large towel and decided to wait until daylight to mop up the mess.

The first year we were in this apartment we had 2-3 inches of water across the entire apartment floor due to a rain storm that had filled one of the balconies that didn’t have a drain. It proceeded to flood all 3 apartments, we swept so much water down the stairs it looked like a real water fall. A couple of years ago friends down stairs woke to water in their apartment that came from the apartment next door to them. A hot water line broke making that apartment look like a sauna. Why is it these thing always happen during the middle of the night and aren’t discovered until morning maximizing the amount of water to be dealt with.

Had a pleasant Friday evening listen to Jimmy Mamou, marveling at his energy.  Then we stopped by Legends as we heard music coming from there where a young Mexican fellow was singing  good old american rock and roll. He was quite good. But we were home by 11, not much of night owls any more.

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Jimmi Mamou

We have never been “La Ropa beach people.  We have preferred Playa Las Gattas or Ixtapa Island for beach life and swimming.  But this year will be different and I don’t have enough bending ability in my new artificial knee to handle the getting on and off the water taxis and we can take the bus to La Ropa.  I’ve been going to the gym daily to ride the exercycle, sometimes twice daily but I’ not seeing any noticeable improvement. Very frustrating as it is keeping me from doing so many of the things I enjoy doing.But for ever the optimist I will persevere and see what happens.  Signing off KO